You’ll want to make sure that not only is the book’s message a positive one, but that it is age-appropriate as well. We carefully considered material, age recommendations, book format, value, and message when reviewing products. Here are the best books for shy kids. “What to Do When You Feel Too Shy: A Kid’s Guide to Overcoming Social Anxiety” earned a top spot on our list because it’s a great resource for parents and kids alike. The book is written by Claire A. B. Freeland and Jacqueline B. Toner, two licensed psychologists who have worked with children and their families for years. It’s targeted toward ages 6 to 12 and focuses on dealing with the social phobias and anxiety that often present as shyness. With a special introduction for parents and caregivers, the book uses cognitive behavioral principles to walk kids through activities and techniques to help them feel more comfortable in various situations. Price at time of publication: $21 The book highlights the power of friendship and how kids can find their voice in a variety of ways. Parents say the cadence of this book is catchy, and the illustrations are charming. Price at time of publication: $22 Not only does “The Invisible Boy” impart an important message for those who are shy, but it also teaches all kids about how much including others can matter. The book is recommended for ages six to nine and includes a discussion guide for teachers and parents to help spur deeper conversations about the issues. Parents say the lessons are powerful for children no matter what type of personality they have, and the illustrations are engaging. Price at time of publication: $19 Parents and teachers say this book sends a great message to children as young as preschool about why it’s important to be heard. They say it also sends a message to more outgoing kids about how to help shy kids feel more comfortable. Price at time of publication: $6 The zany creatures are brought to life with quirky, colorful illustrations, and there’s a feel to the pictures and rhyming text that may remind you of Dr. Seuss. While it’s recommended for ages six to 10, parents say kids of all ages enjoy it. Readers say the characters are relatable, and that anyone who has ever felt shy or like an outsider will relate. Price at time of publication: $12 Customers say it’s a well-written story that kids enjoy and that the picture book also packs in a lot of important historical information—making it ideal for the home or the classroom. Price at time of publication: $9 Customers rave about this book, saying it’s a must-read for introverted children. Written on a fifth or sixth-grade reading level, reviewers say it’s great for children of all ages and their parents. Price at time of publication: $10 Some books can also come with some very concrete activities to help overcome shyness, such as those found in “What to Do When You Feel Too Shy: A Kid’s Guide to Overcoming Social Anxiety.” The overall messaging should be positive.
Age-Appropriateness
You’ll want to make sure that not only is the book’s message a positive one, but that it is age-appropriate as well. Check the book jacket for the recommended ages for whichever book you are considering. Some character depictions or language might not be appropriate for certain age ranges. You want the book to be at the right reading level for your child as well.
